Sex therapist show you how to turn a sex toy into a “perfect sex aid.”

In the past, when dealing with men’s and women’s health and partners’ sexual problems, I would usually provide physical and psychological desensitization and sensitization programs for participants, and one of the ways is to use suitable sex toys to help resolve sexual problems and increase sexual willingness.

The following reference is to Professor K.Y. Chen of the Institute of Human Sexuality, Shu-Te University of Science and Technology, who published in the Journal of Sexuality in 2012 a classification of Sexual Aids: Sexual helping devices. In April 1994, at the First Clinical Training Course in Thailand, Nguyen Phuong Phuc proposed that there are three categories of sexual helping devices.

A. Sexual medical devices: negative pressure erection aids used to treat erectile dysfunction, vaginal dilators used to treat vaginal spasms, etc., are therapeutic.

Sex toys: used to enhance sexual pleasure in sex life, more general low enhancement of sexual stimulation items, belongs to the entertainment orientation.

Third, multi-purpose sexual aids: both therapeutic and compensatory, but also for sex toys. For example, inflatable dolls are used as alternative sexual partners for the physically challenged, which also has a humane approach to health care (Nguyen Phuong Foo, 2009).

We often browse some videos or webpages and suddenly advertisements for sex toys pop up, eating, wiping, and all sorts of shapes and sizes. …. In fact, there are categories for these wide variety of products, as follows.

Food: Aphrodisiacs, flavors, fruit flavored condoms, edible underwear, modeling candy.

Clothing: Sexy underwear, student sailor uniforms and other uniforms for men and women.

Pillars: vibrators, dildos, jumping balls.

Torture: Cryogenic candles, whips, handcuffs, masks.

V. Pleasure: Erotic CDs and books.

Pleasure: Pleasure products, toys, and decorations.

The purpose of these products is to stimulate the five senses by seeing, hearing, touching, tasting, and smelling in order to promote sexual satisfaction (Chung-Ming Cheng, 2006).

When it comes to sex toys, some people may have seen them but not used them, or heard of them but know little about them. I would like to share with you that the current generation of sex toys is a result of the creative and thoughtful human beings’ pursuit of more intense sensual stimulation when the simpler methods of sexual intercourse fail to provide satisfaction (Chen, 2012). According to Dr. Cheng Cheng-Chieh, a professor of medicine at the University of California, San Francisco, in 2004, the word “erotic” is used to add new and exciting ways to achieve orgasm and further mentioned that 47% of people in Taiwan have used a vibrator. The above shows that the public acceptance of sex toys is not low.

Prof. K.Y. Chen conducted a study on the intention and usage behavior of sex toys among adults in the northern, central, southern, and eastern regions of Taiwan using an online questionnaire. The following are some of the results of the study.

A. Women’s use of sex toys is higher than men’s, and it is assumed that traditional thinking has influenced men to view sex toys as the enemy.

My sister has her own ideas and opinions!

It is assumed that adults between the ages of 26 and 35 are mostly new to society, as their use of sex toys is lower than that of other age groups.

They are just working hard to make money!

It is assumed that unmarried people have more choices of sexual partners and more diverse ways to experiment with sex.

Check it out! They say don’t get married.

The positive factors of expectation and longing for sex and sex-related things are assumed to be higher than the negative factors for the sexually inexperienced group.

So stop laughing at people who are virgins, because they dare to try!

V. Analysis of Adult Pleasure Product Use Behavior

(a) Women’s use of erotic CDs and books, sex toys, and accessories is higher than men’s. The assumption is that women have a higher self-regard for sex than men, and therefore tend to use the aforementioned erotic products alone in their erotic exploration and relief.

As I said, sex with oneself is safe and free from the risk of STDs and pregnancy.

Adults between the ages of 36 and 45 are more likely to use aphrodisiacs, flavors, fruit-flavored condoms, edible underpants, and modeling candies.

Rub, lick, eat and wear one of each, and give me a different sexual experience!

(3) Adults under the age of 25 are more receptive to the use of erotic CDs, books and publications, as well as to the use of sex toys and accessories.

If you don’t try it now, you’re better off, because youth is money!

(4) Southern adults are more likely to use pornographic CDs, books and publications, which is assumed to mean that Southern adults are more conservative and less likely to try SM-based products.

Conservative Southerners, porn hurts their eyes, so unblock it and try something else!

Unmarried and divorced adults are more likely to use erotic CDs and books, presumably as erotic products, which are often used for solitary erotic relief and bring about stronger imagination and sensory stimulation.

Long nights, alone in the house, with no one by the pillow, are certainly no time to treat yourself!

(6) Inexperienced adults use more erotic CDs, books and publications, sex toys and accessories than experienced adults. It is assumed that inexperienced adults are still learning and exploring about sex or sex-related things, and are in need of reference models.

Learning is to take a longer path, but good instructional videos can make your experience longer, while bad ones can cause sexual problems.

The article also shows that some male partners are hostile to sex toys, especially dildos, for fear that their partners will reject or question their organ’s size, abilities, and skills. …There was also a vivacious female client, about thirty years old, who happily talked about her sex life with her husband’s sex toys (Yingzheng Zhang, 2003). Unhealthy conservatism may lead to sexual repression or fear, while excessive openness may develop unsafe sexual behaviors that may affect the partner’s emotions and even endanger human health.

The economic aspect of work, which takes up most of an adult’s life, belongs to the productive capacity needed to maintain the quality of life, while sex and intimacy play an important role in making people feel happy and loved, in addition to procreation. Sexual drive is one of the three major survival forces of human beings, and is therefore an important ability, so why is it not properly valued and exercised? Let sex not only be a function of fertility and ejaculation, but also an advanced instinct that evolves and leads.

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